Some people have on - off relationships. That is their dynamic. They are all in love for a time, then its all off.
Why does this happen? - Generalisations.
The people are passionate and fiery. They can exaggerate things, and feel very high or very low.
They feel extremely sorry for their words or actions and want to make things right.
They conjure up the good memories, dwell on them until they are bigger than the initial problem - the thing that split them up in the first place. They think that because they have a history - this will help patch things up.
One partner loves a lot more than the other.
They are lonely and think 'better the devil you know'.
The relationship has been established. It is too difficult to go through the process of finding someone and dating all over again.
They have got themselves into a rut. One may feel they cannot do without the other.
One or both are controlling. One or both enjoy 'the dance' or 'game'. Power struggle.
Relive the courting process.
Drama Kings and Queens:
One or both are getting something out of being in 'crisis' mode.
It is not really for anyone to judge this kind of relationship - like people in the world - relationships are made up of all kinds.
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# Off On
# Couple Dynamics