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breaking up, making up,back and forth, on and off relationships


Some people have on - off relationships. That is their dynamic. They are all in love for a time, then its all off.


Why does this happen? - Generalisations.

Passion: The people are passionate and fiery. They can exaggerate things, and feel very high or very low.

Regret: They feel extremely sorry for their words or actions and want to make things right.

Memories: They conjure up the good memories, dwell on them until they are bigger than the initial problem - the thing that split them up in the first place. They think that because they have a history - this will help patch things up.

Inequality: One partner loves a lot more than the other.

Loneliness: They are lonely and think 'better the devil you know'.

Convenience: The relationship has been established. It is too difficult to go through the process of finding someone and dating all over again.

Dependency: They have got themselves into a rut. One may feel they cannot do without the other.

Manipulation: One or both are controlling. One or both enjoy 'the dance' or 'game'. Power struggle.

Making up: Relive the courting process.

Drama Kings and Queens: One or both are getting something out of being in 'crisis' mode.


It is not really for anyone to judge this kind of relationship - like people in the world - relationships are made up of all kinds.



Image "Annoyed" by Jsome1 under license cc by 2.0



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