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What happens if you realise too late that the person you thought you should spend the rest f your life with is really the wrong person?

Recently I heard on the radio an extremely distraught female saying she has chosen the wrong person to spend the rest of her life with. She was having thoughts about he ex boyfriend while she was planning her wedding with her current fiancé. She did not understand why she was having these thoughts as the guy she was with was loving, kind and a good man.

This is quite a tricky situation that many people face, believe it or not. If you have these feelings, you must ask yourself ‘Do you stay or do you go?’ If you are making this decision, you must think long and hard about your choice, as it could be a deal breaker. We all have doubts in a relationship but it is vital to dig deeper to see how strong these doubts really are.

If you are having second thoughts just before a wedding, it could possibly be the nerves. If you are thinking about your ex, they have obviously played a big part in your past, which should stay apart of your past as they are your ex for a reason. If you are having these thoughts because he or she is not treating you right, you must trust your instincts and you may have chosen the wrong person due to their actions towards you.

Sit down with your partner and explain how you are feeling. They deserve to know what you are thinking and maybe they can help decide what is the best for both of you.

At the end of the day, you cannot be in a relationship where you are unhappy. Dealing with your emotions is important. We all go through hard times and it is possible to have chosen the wrong person. Always think your decision through and if you truly believe they are the wrong person, it is never too late to move on.



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