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Soul mates do exist. You may be a fortunate soul to wake up, be in a love based relationship and all of a sudden know (and truth be proven) that the partner/mate in your life is your soulmate. You're honest with each other, and your spiritual and other connections are deep. You're not clinging to your mate; you respect their boundaries and they respect yours. This is true love.
You may have created a soul mate wish list, and sure a package turns up - as in a new partner coming into your life as you intended, and this package could comprise of a partially completed jigsaw puzzle - meaning that someone (God or the higher order) has put some of the pieces of the jigsaw together (soulmate material) and hands you to rest (meets you halfway) to allow you to construct the remaining pieces of the puzzle here.
The metaphor of the remaining pieces of this love jigsaw puzzle is super cool. Why? You've just been handed some small, golden keys to actually go out to work, get your hands dirty, and create your soulmate from the mate you're with. Some of the qualities ingrained within him/her as a special individual have emanated into your life, and now it is your job to complete the puzzle of your perfect soulmate.
Give it time, and give it work. It is fertile. Creating your soulmate is like maintaining a healthy garden free of weeds. You're planting the seeds, and now they need to grow with some TLC. Isn't that what loves all about? Do this, and you're not addicted and infatuated with your partner. Do this, and you're not putting each other up on pedestals either.
Every spare 10 minutes out of your busy schedules, you can both catch up for coffee, or even just for two blocks of walking together is fertile. Doing such activities means that you're closer and closer to completing the jigsaw puzzle and planting the seeds for your soulmate to really manifest. You're creating Mr or Mrs Right as you move along in the relationship.
Just be you, and just be authentic. Do not rush good into you, unless you want it rushed out of you and your psyche.
"God please grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, and give me the wisdom to know the difference."