Ever wondered why you can't seem to get a girl or guys phone number? Or even just have a conversation for longer than 30 seconds? Maybe you need some tips for flirting.
The first tip is to practice talking. Become a social artist, and not a pick up artist. You will go a lot further by just talking and getting to know a person, and not saying things that you think will help you to get someone to go home with you.
The second tip is talk about something really interesting that has happened to you, or on something you have done. But be careful what you say...dates don't want to hear about how you slipped in a paddock and fell into mud and you smelt really bad and couldn't get the smell out of your hair for days.
You also don't want to go over the top. After working in hotels, I was with a friend and talking about all the famous people I had met. I once remembered a man on my train worked for a hotel, and he bragged about meeting Janet Jackson and the prime minister, and telling me they searched the kitchen for bombs before the PM walked through. I remember how I thought it was a load of rubbish. Now although I have met all these people I say I've met; I understand how it would sound to others. So that is not one of my first date or pick up topics. Girls like the truth so guys don't make up stuff.
The third and final tip is to learn some trivia. Now it's not suggested you be prepared to win a million dollars on a TV quiz show, but it just helps to have a bit of knowledge so that if you run out of things to say about yourself, you can start a conversation about something trivial you know.
Hope these ideas help, and happy dating.