I'm confused are we having sex tonight? Photo from freedigitalphotos.net from artur84
Let's talk about sex, and in particular sex on the first date. Should you do it? Would you do it?
Whenever I go on a first date I never go home with the guy. It's not the same for everyone though. Some do. But what do men and woman think about it? And will it lead to another date?
The men I have asked about this say they like to do it, some woman said yes and some said no they wouldn't because they don't want to give the wrong idea. As for leading to another date, 60% say no 20% maybe and 20% said yes. No one wants to date the girl who's been with everyone, and there isn't anything left to look forward to if you have already had sex.
First date first kiss. Get to know one another and see if there's a possibility for a second. Don't rush into things. That's what I always think. You don't need to be overly obvious and as soon as you sit down say ok now let's get one thing straight we are not having sex tonight. But you shouldn't give mixed signals. Try he subtle about it.
So when is good to take that next step? Well there isn't really a set dating schedule. It's not first date, kissing, getting to know each other. Second date seeing if there's still a spark, still stuff to talk about, and third date sex. After three dates or even four or five you can think about it. If you're worth it they will wait. And if they won't wait, was there much of a loss anyway?