Self-Love Is More Important Before A Partner

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Self-love is important for all us. Everyone need tender, loving, care once in awhile from themselves. Love from outside yourself can become temporary. A loved one can change their feelings or go far away. When a person seeks love outside themselves foremost, then issues leading to depression, self-doubt, addiction, and other emotional problems can develop. Healthcare professionals do provide therapy to people that need a dual diagnosis treatment. Therapies of that kind involve having better relationships with others and with oneself.

Self-love also backs up the phrases that people say often in regards to love. "You can't love anyone unless you love yourself" and "How can you love me if you don't love yourself". If you think these phrases have no meaning, think again. People that are hurting inside, directly or indirectly hurt their loved ones too. Feelings of insecurities can turn into damaging actions. A loved one will feel under the microscope of their insecure and hurt friend, lover, spouse, or partner.

What happens when self-love turns into self-marriage? Self-marriage is not recognized in America as a legal bond. This is not stopping women and men from making that huge commitment to themselves. People are labeling self-marriage a sign of bitterness. Perhaps marrying yourself first should be the first marriage for a person.

Many may believe that women who married for solo-gamy wanted their dream wedding. While this could be true, the fact remains that they decided what they want and took action. Women and men alike are to be applauded for taking action to live their best life. And the best life can be described as one that allows a person to be their best self.


High divorce rates are scaring women and men from taking the eternal vows of marriage. A lasting marriage with oneself may be forever. One relationship that will be certain and true is the one you can have with yourself. And some women would say sologamy is less of a headache.

Self-love is important for those in any form of a relationship. Whatever the case sologamy, monogamy or polygamy relationships need love internal and external. Psychology Today provides some insight into self-care or self-love for women and men out there searching for guidance on relationships


Accept that you are not the center of other people’s universe
--No one is everything to everyone at the same time. Focus on those who do genuinely love you. Accept that we are all pieces to a puzzle in another person’s life. Love yourself first and this will not be so daunting to accept. Be the center of your own universe so you can receive love and give love.

Self-love will give a person hope in times of living in pain and confusion. Pain and confusion can stem from a variety of sources. There is one of many clear reasons why people turn to drugs or unhealthy outlets. are because they may have exhausted all their coping mechanisms. Dual diagnosis treatment aims to get people back to loving themselves. Self-love is there to sustain us in the world that is often not so loving.



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