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Have you ever felt like you're competing for a guy but you're not sure?
These days with things like snap chat, it makes it easy to jump to the wrong conclusions. I recently discovered snap chat, and not for sending nudes but just for fun sending photos of me in a cute dress or sending a photo of my dog being adorable to my friends.
Everything was ok until I discovered best friends. What is 'best friends' you might ask? It's when you snap chat someone a lot, and I mean a lot. You get listed as their best friend. Each person has up to three. When I discovered this, I got a little crazy. Every day I would check the list for best friends of my crush. He always had three, and they were always girls.
When you open a snap chat or send one and the receiver opens it; you will get one more point. So I would send a snap to my crush, and not get one back. I would check, and if his number went up, I'd always go crazy. It was so hard because I couldn't confront him. I would seem like the crazy obsessed type. And no one wants to date that type. Right?
There really isn't such a thing as a knight in shining armour who comes to save the crazy obsessed girl. She will be forever alone, or become the crazy cat lady. At least this is how I feel.
So what can you do to stop feeling like the other girl?
I tried asking questions and it seemed to work. But you have to ask the right ones. You have to be subtle, and not in any way obvious.
There are many other ways to feel like the other girl. When your crush gets texts of a girl frequently, but whatever it is. Don't take a back seat. Find out what you need to do to be number one, and make your crush your partner in every way. And start taking charge of your happiness.