It's the question every guy asks you when they are trying to pick you up. 'Why are you still single?'
Why do they ask this? Is it to make conversation or just that they think there must be something wrong with you if you're still single? This I am still uncertain about.
Men are as confusing as a new smart phone you haven't tried out in the shop before purchase.
So how do we answer the above question? How do we know what to say?
My answer to this is usually is 'If I knew I wouldn't be single' but that statement whilst true isn't entirely true for some. I know women who would say this that are clingy, text and phone call constantly throughout the day, and although they know their weaknesses, they continue down the road of self destruct with men and then say why me?
Personally I have tried everything to make things work, I've been the clingy over the top type, hoping they like being chased. I have tried to text every once in a while as not to seem too clingy. But always at some point it ends up at that stage where they tell me they don't want a relationship. Sad face.
So what did I do wrong? This I will never know. A man never says " I don't like you because..."
Your too clingy
You text too much
You stink etc, etc.
They just tell you you're not wanted and then ignore you like your not worthy of an explanation.
So what I have learnt from these experiences is, be yourself and if it doesn't work, it wasn't meant to be,
and just move on.