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The New Way to Reject a Potential Date

by Katie (follow)
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Guy in bed with his girlfriend
photo courtesy of Beayden


When a guy starts seeing a girl, and he knows there are other girls who showed interest in him as more than a friend, he tells them those sacred words: "sorry I have a girlfriend." Right? Well not any guy I know of, and it's the same if they aren't interested.

The first rejection

It all started in high school when I texted a guy to say I liked him, and that I wanted to go out with him. I simply asked him out and didn't say anything at first. When I asked again he pretended my messages were coming up in Chinese. Eventually my friend texted him for me, and he told her he had a girlfriend. Why he couldn't just say that in the first place is beyond me.

The second

The second time was a few months later with a guy I met on the train. He was cute and overheard me telling a friend that. So he gave me his number. We met up for lunch in the city, and we tried to get into a movie. He had lied about his age to me so he wasn't actually old enough and he couldn't get in. So we headed to one of those game places and it was shut. I didn't have any ideas on what to do, so we parted ways and went home. A few days later I asked him out; he was cute and I still liked him. He never replied. He ignored every phone call and text. He couldn't just say he wasn't interested. I was meant to just take a hint I suppose.

More Recently

Then there's more recently. I have had this happen at least twice now. Friends with a guy. I start thinking that the friendship might lead to something more, and then nothing. No texts or calls. No replies to anything; just opening my messages and not replying. Until months later that is. Months down the track and I get the sorry I had a girlfriend line. Well that doesn't cut it anymore! If you have a girlfriend just say so. I'm sure she won't mind you telling girls to back off.

And Finally The Snap Chat Rejection

The most recent and most annoying is when you find out via snap chat. Yes snap chat. Believe it or not, a guy I liked sent out a group snap chat to everyone of himself in bed with his new girlfriend. So this my friends is how in 2014, guys reject you. Not subtly by texting or calling and saying sorry you're not my type or, sorry I have a girlfriend; but by making a group snap chat, which he knows you are sure to see.

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