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What Turns Men Off

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Love, Commitment, Relationships, True Love, What Turns Men Off


How long a relationship lasts can all be determined by the attitudes you present to each other. We all may try very hard to make it work, but, there are definitely a few things that will turn a guy off no matter how perfect you are, or how smoothly the relationship is going.

Underestimating him can make him think twice about if he really wants to be with you. No man wants to look bad or be put down in front of others. This will not only hurt his ego but will make him realise that you are not a team. For you to put him down so easily will show that you donít really care about his feelings, and trust me, every guy wants you to care!

Not every guy wants to talk about kids and a future wedding after a few dates. This is not a conversation that will go down well with a guy, as many do not want to rush into a serious relationship, especially if they are young. Although every guy is different, this should be a conversation that should be discussed once you have been in a serious relationship for at least 12 months. Donít bring up the topic on your first encounter or during the Ďseeing each otherí period. This is a recipe for disaster.

Are you clingy? Do you hang off his arm wherever you go and all you want to do is stay by his side? Clingy girls do not make good girlfriends, so avoid this at all costs. Show your independent side and that you can mingle with his friends and others when you are out. Guys like a girl that can stand on her own rather than a girl that does not let a guy breathe.

Being clingy can also occur due to feelings of jealousy and distrust. Men do not want a girl that is always prying, checking his messages and phone calls. Trust is important for a relationship to work. Without this forget him sticking around, he will leave in a heartbeat.

Negative attitude is another turn off to men and not to mention a very ugly trait to have. Men do not want to be around women that always complain and have an issue with everything life has to offer. Slowly, he will stop taking you out to dinner because you are never happy and then soon enough all the dates will stop completely. Donít think he will stick around if you encompass this trait.



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